It is quite difficult to find a partner that already is into edging, as many of you may know. Here is hopefully a simple guide to help those that want a partner to be into edging and denial. The edging part is easy to implement, the denial part not so much.Step 1: Introducing the idea of edgingYou have to convince your partner that edging feels absolutely amazing and that it can lead to stronger orgasms. It is normal for your partner to reject the idea at first, because why should you delay an orgasm if it seems like an immediate reward? The trick here is to get your partner to see edging as a reward too. If you can make her see that edging can release pleasure hormones and extend the pleasure time, you are likely to be able to experiment with an edging session. Especially if your partner likes to try new things, trying female edging will be certainly within the range of possibilities. You just have to be confident enough to openly talk about your kinks and desires, and that you would like to experiment with techniques to extend the pleasure. You probably shouldn’t introduce the idea of denial right away. You would want to gradually increase the intensity over time.Step 2: Experimenting with the first edging sessionYou will want to have an open communication style during your first session. This will make or break your whole setup. If you fail the first time to get a positive response from your partner, you may still attempt to convince her later, but it will be increasingly difficult to give her a positive view of female edging and denial,if you don’t have a positive outcome at first. You will want to gently get her to the edge of orgasm and tell her to let you know when she is close. You will let her know that you will stop stimulation right before she cums. Make sure to get feedback on how she is feeling. You want to deal with any negative feelings right away. A first timer might actually feel disappointment or dissatisfaction the first time, and she will fail to see why edging is good. If these feelings should arise you must deal with them and tell her it is normal to feel like that at first, it will become better over time. It is similar to not liking coffee at first, or wine etc. and then you gradually learn to appreciate them. The strongest convincer you can deliver is that the orgasm will be stronger in the end. And you will hope that your promise holds true.If she does have a stronger orgasm, you basically have sealed the deal. If not, you will have to experiment and try again later, and basically hope that she will eventually learn to love it.Step 3: Gently introducing the idea of denialIt will be most difficult to convince your partner that orgasm denial is good. There are various ways you can go about it, for example you can say its like a detox, you learn to abstain from orgasm in order to enjoy some other things in your life better. You could compare it to edging, that it extends pleasure and horniness. You would want to start with it maybe for a few hours only. After an edging session tell her you want to experiment with a bit of denial, maybe an hour or two, and then after that make her come and give her the reward. Then you could drag it out for a day. You could promise to give her more pleasure or whatever as a reward, see how she likes it. Maybe edge her a little sometimes. Just recognize where her limits are, talk about them and slowly extend the duration, intensify your experimentations. And remember to take things slow, she has to enjoy the process and feel comfortable. If you make it a negative thing, you have already lost before you even started.I hope this makes sense and if anyone has any improvements, please don’t be shy to add your comments! female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n
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