Help me

All my life I’ve been cumming too fast during sex. I think it might have something to do with my early teens where I jerked off a lot and it just had to be quick. I’m 24 now and I really want to fix this in some way. Today is stumbled upon this subreddit, and now I have an idea that some of you wonderfull people in here might be able to help my out?If I, during sex, take it slow and controlled with few fast bursts at the time, I can manage to hold it back for a good amount if time (not very long, but more than 30 seconds to 2 minutes) . But I don’t want it to all ways to be controlled, I want it to be wild and without boundaries!I hope someone can help me. Let me know if you need more info. Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: For women: