Hope this is okay to post here (I promise it is 100% edging/denial related). Just looking for some feedback/advice/thoughts/opinions etc. Long story short: my (F24) libido has taken a sudden turn for the worst and has become almost completely non-existent out of NOWHERE.Now for somewhat of a background: my partner (M25 that I have been with sexually for over a year now) and I have always had the strongest, most incredible sexual chemistry. We can never get enough of each other. I have always been an extremely sexual person, and my relationships have never lacked in that boat. Although, this relationship has been the most sexually satisfying by FAR. Within the last few months I have gotten into edging and orgasm denial. It turns me on more than anything. I like to be on both the giving and receiving side. My partner and I started to play around with it, and I told him to not let me cum for a week. From there he took the lead, and edged me any chance we got. Made it through the week, I got to cum, and then continued to play around with it still but without any set rules or time frames. In that month-ish of time I was the horniest I have ever been. Constantly masturbating (edging only mostly), constantly initiating sex with my partner even more than before. Happily getting him off without feeling too much desire to even cum myself. Since there were no spoken “rules” or “guidelines” ever really set after that one week, my partner eventually started to make me cum as much as usual and gradually just kind of stopped edging me or denying me of cumming. I was still enjoying sex just as much as ever and felt my orgasms were still stronger even from all of the previous edging. But I would continue to bring it up here and there, and still do, mentioning that I want him to edge & deny me. I told him I want him to surprise me with orgasms randomly (versus having a set day that I know I will get to cum on). He seemed about it but never actually followed through on doing so… I feel like I keep bringing it up hoping for him to take the lead on it, but I think he just enjoys making me cum more than he does edging me (at least in the moment, kind of like how it can be hard to make YOURSELF stop, but it just takes a certain level of self control)? So I’ve begun to feel like I am just waiting for him to deny me and it just isn’t happening.ANYWAYS on to the bigger point of my post. In the last week or so I have felt my sex drive completely plummet to almost nothing. I went from feeling the horniest I have ever been in my whole life, to suddenly feeling no sexual desire whatsoever. I haven’t been masturbating. Porn doesn’t seem as appealing. It feels like a chore to have sex more than anything. So my question is: If you have begun to partake in the delicious practice of edging & denial over a period of at least a few weeks, and then stop pretty much all together and continue to orgasm freely, has it had an affect on your libido? As majorly as it has affected me? Anyone experienced this or have any thoughts on it? I almost feel like the more I orgasm the less horny I have become… I just didn’t think it could get to this point of zero libido. Especially considering that for months and months our sex consisted of orgasm after orgasm with no denial whatsoever, and my libido was consistently high.I do think that I should make more of a point to masturbate/edge myself, and to discuss in more of a serious manner with my partner. Other than that I just really hope my sex drive boosts back up, and am curious if edging will be the key.Thank you so much for reading :3 I am curious to hear if anything like this has happened to any of ya’ll. female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n
