So, I have dabbled in orgasm denial/control with an ex and during that time it was a very motivating part of my life.My new gf (we are bi) is new to bdsm/orgasm control. She’s open to the idea of trying things, but we have a lot going on in life right now.So with her support, I turn to this subreddit. I have been a reader/viewer for a while and appreciate the subreddit’s motivation combined strict accountability. I need that.I want to keep things simple, but also be reminded to keep to my diet and workout routine that I am starting tomorrow.I am wondering which one of the following until I reach my first goal (hit below 130 lbs) I should do to help me do that. I would love to hear this subreddit’s thoughts before making a decision.Complete “no touch”Edge once in the morning and once at night with no orgasmSame as 2 and edge before working outEdge once before each main meal (3x a day) and edge before working outSame as 4 and edge once each morning and each nightEdge once before eating anything each day (about 6x a day) and edge before working outSame as 6 and edge once each morning and each nightCurrently1 vote for 21 vote for 5I’m trying to make it motivating, and remind me that I’m doing this to be a better me as well as be sexier for my gf. But I also want it to be reasonable to complete.Two other things I’m considering:To have a post on here that’ll be a running list of how I am allowed to edge. This way, how I edge is not even my choice.Eventually, add a punishment system for if I break my diet/workout requirements and for if I do not edge when supposed to.I hope this is something the subreddit will find interesting and help me plan for. I need to be denied to stay motivated and hopefully it’ll bring this subreddit some enjoyment. female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n