differentiating between hard edges and ruined orgasms

Hii, I’ve gotten into edging and denial a while ago but have a question about how to differentiate between hard edges and ruined orgasms!Sometimes an orgasm creeps up on me and I have to concentrate really hard to not tip over the edge. I’ll stop and try not to cum but it still feels really intense, like the height of pleasure just before the release and contractions start. If this happens and I take a 5 second break to let the feeling fade I can go back to touching and immediately reach that edge again. Would this be considered a hard edge or a ruined orgasm? When I intentionally ruin it feels pretty much the same except I do feel that release and there are contractions. After one of those I also take longer to build up another orgasm or edge. I kind of feel like I’m cheating when I do those “hard edges” bc they feel so damn good..😂 Do you think they count as ruins or hard edges? female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n