i found that while i really enjoy instruction and specifically orgasm control, i’m really bad at cumming before i’m allowed. i decided to make myself a little challenge to improve that, and wanted to share with all of you 💕the way that i prefer to play this is using fapinstructor, but you can also use dice/random number generator/other edging games/a partner! fapinstructor is technically made for cis men, but it’s pretty simple to make it work for your body. i typically use a wand vibrator and stroke myself in time to the beat.goals: to make me (1) more sensitive to stimulus, (2) more obedient to orgasm control and (3) more mindless to enjoy edgingrules: – 5-60minutes – 34% chance to cum/33% chance for denial/33% chance for ruin – 3 edges minimum – 3-5 punishment tasks (your choice, but you MUST always have these options available when playing. choose wisely.) – you must do your very best not to reach the edge until allowed.these are the baseline rules, you/your partner can always make more conditions for yourself to follow!here are some of my personal rules: – if allowed to cum, MUST squirt. if you can’t squirt, ruin instead. – if ruined before allowed, must complete a humiliation task before playing againhere is the link to my personal fapinstructor game. you can change the configurations however you like (as long as they fit the rules) and edit the subreddits to your liking. but i thought i’d share to give inspiration/a good blueprint for how it works.i’m also keeping a diary that counts edges/denials/ruins as well as time spent.i’d love to hear any ideas, suggestions, or feedback! feel free to share your own personal rules for others to get inspiration from 💕 female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n