denial and edging challenge

i found that while i really enjoy instruction and specifically orgasm control, i’m really bad at cumming before i’m allowed. i decided to make myself a little challenge to improve that, and wanted to share with all of you šŸ’•the way that i prefer to play this is using fapinstructor, but you can also use dice/random number generator/other edging games/a partner! fapinstructor is technically made for cis men, but it’s pretty simple to make it work for your body. i typically use a wand vibrator and stroke myself in time to the beat.goals: to make me (1) more sensitive to stimulus, (2) more obedient to orgasm control and (3) more mindless to enjoy edgingrules: – 5-60minutes – 34% chance to cum/33% chance for denial/33% chance for ruin – 3 edges minimum – 3-5 punishment tasks (your choice, but you MUST always have these options available when playing. choose wisely.) – you must do your very best not to reach the edge until allowed.these are the baseline rules, you/your partner can always make more conditions for yourself to follow!here are some of my personal rules: – if allowed to cum, MUST squirt. if you can’t squirt, ruin instead. – if ruined before allowed, must complete a humiliation task before playing againhere is the link to my personal fapinstructor game. you can change the configurations however you like (as long as they fit the rules) and edit the subreddits to your liking. but i thought i’d share to give inspiration/a good blueprint for how it works.i’m also keeping a diary that counts edges/denials/ruins as well as time spent.i’d love to hear any ideas, suggestions, or feedback! feel free to share your own personal rules for others to get inspiration from šŸ’• female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n

Added edging to orgasm denial for my sub. What fun!

I have controlled my partner’s orgasms for as long as I can remember. I started denying her regularly a few months back. Usually the denial would last a few days or a week. Two weeks ago I added edging. I’d have her edge for 20 minutes a day. The goal was for her to ruin 5 or 6 orgasms in that 20 minutes. I tried so many times in that two weeks to force her but wasn’t able to. She has a very natural need/want to please me.Last night I bound her to the bed, making absolutely sure that she wouldn’t be able to close her legs at all. I set a timer for 20 minutes and told her that if she made it to 20 and heard that alarm she could immediately orgasm. It could last for 15 minutes if she liked but could only orgasm once. I held that vibrator, on high right on her clit for at least 20 minutes. The whole time I kept telling her much less time had actually passed. She cried and pleaded for me to let up. I didn’t, I just kept telling her you better be ready as soon as that alarm goes off to explode. Well let me tell you she screamed so loud, and came so hard I thought for sure the police were going to show up. Next time will be 30 days with edging at least 2x per day. I love good girls! female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n

[F19] I accidentally let myself cum last night

Hey everyone!So if you saw my last post, you’d know I’ve been super stressed studying for two exams I have coming up tomorrow and the following day. I was still keeping up with my edges though and making sure I stayed horny and desperate for the week.As I was getting ready for bed, I was doing my nightly edges and watching girls tied up and fucked in the ass and gaping, watching them get the anal pleasure I can’t right now since I don’t have my plugs. Just as I was getting comfortable and about to close my eyes and go to sleep, my panties rubbed my clit just the right way that immediately sent me to a very close edge. I was a bad girl and in a rush of excitement decided to rubbed my clit to a full orgasm, rather than writhing in desperation. I ended up soaking my panties immediately. As soon as my orgasm ended I realized my error and regretted it immediately. It wasn’t even a super satisfying orgasm, but definitely not a ruin either. I’m definitely super disappointed in myself for losing my self-control and cumming. Do you think I deserve any sort of punishments for this? I’m not big into impact play, but open to other ideas.In other news, during the day yesterday I was incredibly horny and in the spur of the moment while out shopping for some necessities, I decided to buy myself some lube. Both my toys and lube were at home, but I just couldn’t help myself. I want to play with my ass so badly. What types of things should I maybe lube up and stick in my ass? Unfortunately there is nothing I can leave in like a plug, but at this point any anal pleasure is better than none.Besides that, I’m slightly behind on studying so I need to focus on it more. I just wanted to give an update on this current denial and tell everyone that I was a bad girl and probably need to be punished.Hope you enjoyed the post!Note: As always, comments only please! No DMs or messages. female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n