New to orgasm denial, need some help!

Okay, so I’m not totally new, I’ve experimented with orgasm denial and edging in the past but it’s been over a year now and after trying to follow along with some audios and challenges on my own, I’ve decided I can’t quite keep control without someone else making the decisions. I’d really like some sort of challenges in the comments to help me get back into it! The main issue I’ve had, is even if I’m good and stop right before I cum, completely stopping any stimulation and freezing, my mind still pushes me over the edge. In fact, even THINKING about being a good girl and not cumming pushes me over when I’m already so close… it’s such a turn-on. I’m not interested in DMing anyone right now, so please keep any advice, suggestions, tasks, and challenges to the comments only and I’ll happily reply there!Some notes: I do have a bullet vibrator, I’m not open to anal toys right now even though I do have plugs, no pics, vids, or audios, both Doms and Dommes can leave suggestions, and please don’t suggest things that are generally unhealthy or unsafe, such as inserting house-hold items which I’ve seen suggested a few times in other’s posts!Hope to get some replies and can’t wait to see what you guys think of! <3 female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: http://www.lovense.com/r/0zgdsg