denial and edging challenge

i found that while i really enjoy instruction and specifically orgasm control, i’m really bad at cumming before i’m allowed. i decided to make myself a little challenge to improve that, and wanted to share with all of you 💕the way that i prefer to play this is using fapinstructor, but you can also use dice/random number generator/other edging games/a partner! fapinstructor is technically made for cis men, but it’s pretty simple to make it work for your body. i typically use a wand vibrator and stroke myself in time to the beat.goals: to make me (1) more sensitive to stimulus, (2) more obedient to orgasm control and (3) more mindless to enjoy edgingrules: – 5-60minutes – 34% chance to cum/33% chance for denial/33% chance for ruin – 3 edges minimum – 3-5 punishment tasks (your choice, but you MUST always have these options available when playing. choose wisely.) – you must do your very best not to reach the edge until allowed.these are the baseline rules, you/your partner can always make more conditions for yourself to follow!here are some of my personal rules: – if allowed to cum, MUST squirt. if you can’t squirt, ruin instead. – if ruined before allowed, must complete a humiliation task before playing againhere is the link to my personal fapinstructor game. you can change the configurations however you like (as long as they fit the rules) and edit the subreddits to your liking. but i thought i’d share to give inspiration/a good blueprint for how it works.i’m also keeping a diary that counts edges/denials/ruins as well as time spent.i’d love to hear any ideas, suggestions, or feedback! feel free to share your own personal rules for others to get inspiration from 💕 female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n

Added edging to orgasm denial for my sub. What fun!

I have controlled my partner’s orgasms for as long as I can remember. I started denying her regularly a few months back. Usually the denial would last a few days or a week. Two weeks ago I added edging. I’d have her edge for 20 minutes a day. The goal was for her to ruin 5 or 6 orgasms in that 20 minutes. I tried so many times in that two weeks to force her but wasn’t able to. She has a very natural need/want to please me.Last night I bound her to the bed, making absolutely sure that she wouldn’t be able to close her legs at all. I set a timer for 20 minutes and told her that if she made it to 20 and heard that alarm she could immediately orgasm. It could last for 15 minutes if she liked but could only orgasm once. I held that vibrator, on high right on her clit for at least 20 minutes. The whole time I kept telling her much less time had actually passed. She cried and pleaded for me to let up. I didn’t, I just kept telling her you better be ready as soon as that alarm goes off to explode. Well let me tell you she screamed so loud, and came so hard I thought for sure the police were going to show up. Next time will be 30 days with edging at least 2x per day. I love good girls! female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n

[F19] I accidentally let myself cum last night

Hey everyone!So if you saw my last post, you’d know I’ve been super stressed studying for two exams I have coming up tomorrow and the following day. I was still keeping up with my edges though and making sure I stayed horny and desperate for the week.As I was getting ready for bed, I was doing my nightly edges and watching girls tied up and fucked in the ass and gaping, watching them get the anal pleasure I can’t right now since I don’t have my plugs. Just as I was getting comfortable and about to close my eyes and go to sleep, my panties rubbed my clit just the right way that immediately sent me to a very close edge. I was a bad girl and in a rush of excitement decided to rubbed my clit to a full orgasm, rather than writhing in desperation. I ended up soaking my panties immediately. As soon as my orgasm ended I realized my error and regretted it immediately. It wasn’t even a super satisfying orgasm, but definitely not a ruin either. I’m definitely super disappointed in myself for losing my self-control and cumming. Do you think I deserve any sort of punishments for this? I’m not big into impact play, but open to other ideas.In other news, during the day yesterday I was incredibly horny and in the spur of the moment while out shopping for some necessities, I decided to buy myself some lube. Both my toys and lube were at home, but I just couldn’t help myself. I want to play with my ass so badly. What types of things should I maybe lube up and stick in my ass? Unfortunately there is nothing I can leave in like a plug, but at this point any anal pleasure is better than none.Besides that, I’m slightly behind on studying so I need to focus on it more. I just wanted to give an update on this current denial and tell everyone that I was a bad girl and probably need to be punished.Hope you enjoyed the post!Note: As always, comments only please! No DMs or messages. female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n

A tease for the horny girls dying to cum right now 😘

I’m not currently under orders, so it’s up to me whether I cum or not. And god, feeling myself escalating, whimpering and breathing getting heavier, fingers swirling around faster and faster. My eyes glazed and my mouth open in a (barely) silent scream. My whole torso convulsing while the orgasm rips through my body – not fast, but hard and intense and feeling like it would never stop. Never wanting it to stop. Blissfully coming down, cunt continuing to spasm, making me giggle and gasp and even babble a little when pulling my hand away led to aftershocks. Pretty sure I could have had orgasms forced on me in that moment.You poor babies 😘😘 I got off on your torture. Hearing how desperate you are. How it turns you on. Getting your orgasm while you’re denied. It was just….heaven. 🥰 I still can’t shift without getting some aftershocks through my whole pussy and shaking through my legs. I wonder if you’ll get to feel this again someday? 😇 female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n

Edging Journals Day 26 and Day 27

We got distracted and I forgot to post yesterday…stay tuned with us, tomorrow, we’ve got a great GIF we’re going to post. We’re almost to the end of my 30 day journey, it’s been incredibly fun and sexy for me, and it’s been great to have everyone reading along!Also, in case you didn’t know, this is a transcription of an audio journal. You can find the audio version available free on most podcast streaming services by searching “A Woman’s Pleasure.” We just posted day 27 this morning, new episodes post daily at 8am CST.OK enough chit chat, here’s the journal:Day 26:So here we are at day 26 of the edging journal. Today, I had a busy day! Sexually, that is. Obviously.This morning, I gave my boyfriends instructions on how I wanted him to jack off. I got to experiment with dirty talk, and I liked watching him pleasure himself and being in charge of his pleasure. I had him cum all over my chest. He had a lot of cum, as if he’d been saving it up for me. If I can’t cum, at least I can enjoy him cumming.A bit later, I got myself showered, and my boyfriend came upstairs and joined me on the bed. He started licking my pussy after kissing me for a while. I’ve been telling you about how easy it’s been to stay on the edge, and how I have to stop and start a lot, since I’m so sensitive. That definitely continued into today, it did not take very long of feeling my boyfriend’s tongue on my pussy for me to have to tell him to stop. I was right on the edge of cumming, and he kept me there. I had to beg just for a breather, he couldn’t stop making me feel that good.I experimented with that because I watched the entire time, usually I close my eyes and fantasize or let my mind wander in the waves of pleasure. But today, I watched every move his tongue made. Feeling the anticipation of his tongue reaching my clit, and watching it lick my clit, felt powerful.After he edged me for a while, I edged with my finger, and he kissed me. I couldn’t help but rub my clit while we made out. I felt how wet I was, dripping wet. I think my boyfriend couldn’t take it, he said he had to fuck my pussy, even though he’d told me I wasn’t allowed to feel his dick for the last couple days. I didn’t even have to beg for it! But trust me, it felt so good. And hearing him moan as he slid it in. He told me he had to cum in my pussy, and it made me think, I can’t wait for my turn to cum on his dick.Day 27:Today is day 27 of the edging and teasing journal. I would say today was more of a teasing day. We’re finally fully vaccinated, so we went out for a walk, and there were a lot of people there. It made the day pass quicker to stay distracted from how horny I am. I’ve been thinking about sex and cumming way more in the last week or so than I ever have.But, the distraction didn’t last long: Walking around the park, seeing guys and girls, attractive people…I was reminded that I have not cum in almost an entire month, and I’d do pretty much anything to get to cum at this point. I just have three days left.Part of me wants to make a sexy plan for day 30, like maybe I’ll wear lingerie and pamper myself up. But I also kind of want it to be from the moment we wake up, every time we look at each other, I want it to be a sex filled day.I feel like I’m going to explode from all of this pent up sexual frustration. I look forward to getting to cum, I can’t say that enough. As much as I enjoy the teasing and denial, orgasms are awesome.Not that long ago, just before I came upstairs, my boyfriend pushed me up against the wall, and he was telling me how excited he is for me to get to cum soon. He wants me to cum on his face first, but also his dick. He was kissing me and pinching my nipples through my shirt. I feel like day 30, I’m going to want to basically have sex and take snack breaks, and that’s about it. female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n

Audio of Me Teasing My Wet Pussy

Daddy made spend 15 minutes playing with myself (no cumming obviously) to share with everyone here. As you can probably hear, just the idea made me really wet.Would love to hear your comments. Knowing that someone is listened to this is going to make waiting for my next orgasm so fucking hard.​https://ift.tt/32WKqMl female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n