Is there a large percentage of guys into denying their girlfriends?

Basically, I am aware there are guys into female orgasm denial, but as I am autistic (and a virgin embarrassingly , at 26) I have a hard time meeting people.But how do you find those guys? Is it possible to get vanilla guys (or guys who maybe think they are vanilla) into it?Like, I don’t care is a guy denies me solely bc it makes me more enthusiastic about making him orgasm bc if I can’t enjoy my own orgasm I might as well enjoy his.I just wanna be denied and I am so awful at denying myself, it holds nothing for me.I am just worried bc I am mildly autistic that it will put BDSM inclined guys off… female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n