Husband troubles

Hello, I have been lurking around here, and I’m loving this place. I’m(F34) really into teasing and denial, and my husband (M34) is really into teasing me. However, he doesn’t seem to get the denial part. He will start teasing me, then he gets excited, so we have to have sex or I’ll give him a bj, but he can’t go until he knows I’ve cum. I don’t know how to work around this, I’m terrible at faking it. I’ve tried to tell him that I don’t have to go, but I also don’t want him to not go, he gets really grumpy when he doesn’t finish. Any ideas? female orgasm denial Get your own Orgasm Control toys: For men: http://www.amzn.to/1V6XQvv For women: https://ift.tt/1UWn54n